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Spizzerinctum

Jun 9, 2020

This Dissociation Weʼve Brought Between Us

This Useless Debate Weʼve Initiated Amongst Ourselves On Which Religion Is Better

How We Take This Afterlife Thing Too Seriously…

TIPS OF LIFE FROM THE TACIT VOICE:

This Life Is Useless, Live While You Still Do!

Most Times I See Christians Discriminating Muslims & Other Religions On How “Jesus Is The Ultimate Saviour” ¦ How If They Donʼt Accept Jesus As Their “Lord And Personal Saviour”, Theyʼre Gonnʼ Perish. Seriously?

Most Times I Think To Myself, Why Donʼt People Get It;

You Didnʼt Choose Where Youʼd Be Born!

The Fact That You Were Born Into A Particular Religion Doesnʼt Make You Superior… Or “Godʼs” Favourite 🙄

If You Were Born Into Their Religion, Youʼd Defend It Too! (did you ever think of that? 👀)

PS: This Also Applies To Racial Segregation Too!

On The Part Of The Islam Religion Too; Is The Accusations On Them For These Mass Killings (Of Mostly Christians)

Now, Don’t Get Me Twisted, ‘Cause It Has Been Debunked That These Heartless Entities Committing These Atrocities & Having The Guts To Call Themselves Humans, Aren’t Real Muslims. [So They Say, I DONʼT KNOW]

They’re Just Some Fag Organisation Killing People For No Reason (Even Muslims), – And Shoving Their Evil On A Religion To Make It Sound Professional ¦ Making An Excuse Of Their Malevolent Acts 😒

And Really, If You’d Reason It, “The Creator Want Only You And Your Religion, So You Should Kill His Other Creations Not Born Into Your Own Religion For “Rewards” In The Afterlife…” SMH 🤦‍♂️How Obnoxiously Dumb Is That! 🤬



[While What I’m About To State Doesn’t Relate With The Religion Thing Much – It’s A Necessity!]


It’s About How People Kill Each Other,
Every Single Day, Infuriating Videos Are Posted Online, Heartless Man-Slaughters, Beheading Of Victims In Unidentified Locations...

The Very First Video Of This I Saw Was Someone Being Beheaded In A Place That Looked Like A Bush…

The Infuriating Part Was The Part The Headsman Was Enchanting “Allahu Akbar” Whilst Beheading The Man Till His Head Came Off! 😵🤢🤮

Also, Stories (Daily News) Of Siblings Killing Sibling, Friends Killing Friends, Mass Genocides, Human Rituals, And Other Mini Acts Of Nothing But Pure, Sheer Evil! 🤬

I Sometimes Think 🤔 To Myself… “Why Does God Permit So Much Evil, Why Does He Condone This Wickedness”

Listen To My Tacit Emphasis On That ⬇️Here⬇️


We’ve So Much Allowed This Religion Segregation Of A Thing Cause So Much Discrimination Amongst Ourselves To The Point Even The Same Religion Segregates Themselves!

For Example, The Obvious Division Of The Christian ChurchesWe Now Have Millions, If Not Billions Of Church Denominations Worldwide SMH 🤦‍♂️

For A Fact, Some Are Just Looking For Money, (Check: The Religious Emphasis On Money)

Some Just Want The Attention… Some Just Want The Name… The Fame… SMH 🤦‍♂️

Whatever The Reason Is, These Diversity Have Caused An Uncalled For Debate On Which Denomination Is Better, On Which Is The Most Righteous Or Most Holy…

Why Don’t We See The Obvious Scheme Of The Devil’s Plan Against Humanity!? 🤔👀

I For One, Am The Type That Doesn’t Believe In Going To Churches Before “Iʼm Saved”

Beliefs Are Different, Whatever Yours Is, Do Not Let Humanity’s Apparent Enemy Turn Your Own Mind Against You – Stand Strong!

IF YOU RUSH INTO MARRIAGE – IT’S THE SAME WAY YOU’D RUSH OUT

Don’t Establish A Home Until You’re Sure You Earn A Ample Living!

One Of My Favourite Verses Of The Bible Is The Verse 27 Of 24 In Proverbs;

Don’t Build Your House And Establish A Home Until Your Fields Are Ready, And You’re Sure That You Can Earn A Living.

Proverbs 24:27 GNB

Wait, Lemme Ask This Question… Where The Hell Are You Rushing To?!

Who’s Chasing You!?

You Think Marriage Is Just Something You Can Ball Into When You Like?

Well, Ask Around, If It’s The Stories You Want _ Your Ears Will Bleed Out – Believe Me

Don’t Let Anyone Rush You – Don’t Let Anyone Put Pressure On You – Don’t Let Anyone Intimidate You...

‘Cause When You Enter Into It – It’ll Be Just You And Your God – Well, Mostly You…, ‘Cause None Of Them Is Going To Live In It For You…

And When The Storm Comes (- FACT, The One Thing That’s Inevitable In Marriages), You Won’t Have The Ground To Stand…

Why Punish Yourself And Someone Else’s Daughter? (Doesn’t Mean Ladies Shouldn’t Be Ready Too Anything Can Happen, Anytime, Anywhere, Anyhow)…

Why Should You Make Yourself Suffer?

You’d Spend All Flares Of Currency At Your Wedding And Be Living In A One Room Apartment _ Really? 🙄… In A Rented Apartment?!

If You Think Marriage Is Just To Call Someone Your Wife,… Sit Down Enjoy The Rest Of Your Life _ Well, BUMMER ALERT ⚠ ; ‘Cause It’s Not!

You’d Feed, Clothe Yourselves, Pay Fees, Transport (You’d Also Be Thinking Of Getting A Car – Your Own House... C’mon!)

And Believe Me, If You Don’t Use Your Brain, You’d Be Stucked Like That For The Rest Of Your Life (Unless God Shows You An Unmerited Favour _ Bacause You Didn’t Listen In The First Place!)

You Don’t Wanna Take That Chance _ ‘Cause No One Is Chasing You!

Some Men After Marriage, Take Their Wife To Go Live In Their Mother’s House _ Seriously Bro – Grow Up!

If You’re Not Ready, Don’t Even Think Of Trying It… Nobody Will Kneel You Down Or Flog You Because You’re Not Ready To Marry!

It’s First Of All, For Your Own Good, Your Wife’s, Your Future Offsprings’ Well-Being, Their Education, Their State Of MindIt’s All In Your Hands – You’re The Head, The Brain Is In You – USE IT, Don’t Leave It Idle

If She Keeps Disturbing You To Marry Her, Explain To Her!…

If She Can’t Wait, Be Kind Enough To Let Her Go! You’re Doing You Both A Favour, Believe Me…

Even Here, Parents Also Compares Their Children… Something Like; “You Know That ‘Girl’ Is Younger Than You Oh, And She’s Married 👰 With Kids

So Long You Know What You’re Doing, Let Them Talk… This Is Life, All Fingers Ain’t Equal… Everyone’s Time Is Different _ So Is Our Race Track!

Don’t Get Intimidated… Don’t Feel Oppressed

Make Sure Your “Fields” Are Ready — & — You’re Sure You Can Earn A Living – BE WISE!

DON’T TELL PEOPLE YOUR PLANS!

KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT!

I Know, After Discovering This Blog, Some Of My External Friends Are Going To Ask The ~ Why Didn’t You Tell Me ~ Type Of Question…

Why Should I Tell You?!

So You’d Start Hating On Me Eh?

So You’d Ignore Me And Make Me Feel Bad For Trying…

So I’d Tend To Give Up ‘Cause It “Seems” What I’m Doing Is Bad When It’s NOT!?

Oh, Hell No! (In Chris Tucker’s Voice)

I’ve Actually Been In This Shoe A Couple Of Times, Like When I Was Learning Spanish – And I Wanted To Teach It… I Created A Group For It And Sent The Link To Almost Everyone Of My Relatable Contacts_Of About 30+ Persons ‡ Only 2 Joined And Was Serious, The Rest?…

Well, All Wonders Of Snubbing Was Initiated.

You Know, I Get It If You Ain’t Interested In “Spanish” … I mean, Who Gives The F-Word… I Get If You Think It’s A Stupid And A Rubbish Language… But Still…

You’re Probably Thinking Why I’m Using Those Words Eh?… Well, Those Words Were The Exact Terms My Dad Used…

And Of A Fact, It Has Affected Me… Most Times I Just Wish I Could Have Reversed Time And Kept My Zeals To My Self… 😔

Just Keep That Life Plan To Yourself 🤐🤫 … You Ain’t Gonna Die! 😬

I’ve Learnt, Noticed And Realised This Phenomenal Occurence In Humans, As a Fact;

I’m Going To Be Really Plain Here: – We Don’t Like To Support – FACT!

If We Do, Mostly, We’re Either Expecting A Favour, Or We’re Doing It ‘Cause The Person We’re Doing It For Is Rich Or In A Higher Position – A Perfect Example Is The Elections 👀

When I Started This Blog, It Wasn’t Even Up To A Week And My “Friend” 😒 Was Already Calling It “Yeye” (That’s Yoruba For “Useless” Or “Senseless”). I Created A Facebook Page For It And Sent The Link To Him To Like, And His Exact Words Were “u go just carry ur empty head send me friend request bcos u want me to like yeye page” – My Own Childhood Friend! 😒😑

See Why I Keep Saying I Don’t Want “Friends” 🙄

Might Be a Joke Though, Or Is It?!… But Still Not Liking The Page After The Insult, Definitely Isn’t…

I’m A Guy That Smiles And Laughs For No Specific Reason – I Laugh Alot – But When In Public… I Tend To Frown On Purpose (Sometimes, It’s Just Hunger 😅)

Someone Once Approached Me And Asked Why I Like To Frown _ I Replied – I Don’t Want Friends”. (There’s More To That Though)

Having A Lot Of Friends May Have An Advantage To It, But Trust Me, It Can Never Ever Pay!… Ever!

The Word “Friends” _ To Me, Means Trouble, Storms, Unnecessary Headaches!… I Mean;

† Friends Making Out With Friends’ LoversA Daily Occurence, Repeated Over And Over 🤦‍♂️

Thoughts 💭 On Reality 😐😶

† Back StabbersLike For Real, Only Someone You Trust To Hold Your Back Can Stab You In It… Have You Ever Thought Of That?! 🤔

† Leaked Secrets C’mon!, You Think Secrets Just Fly Out Of Your Mind And Broadcast Itself?!… Who Did You Tell?… Who Has Access To Where You Kept Your Secret Files?… Who Did You Entrust Your Codes To?!

A Stranger Can’t Just Look At You And Know Your Password… Someone Who Doesn’t Know You Can’t Just Break Into Your Home 🏡C’mon!… A Random Restaurant Can’t Poison You!… Someone You “Trust” Did!

Seriously, Yoruba Adages Topped This When It Said “Ẹyin kulé ni ọ̀tá Wá, Inú Ilé Ní Aseni ń Gbé” Which Is “Our Enemies Are At Our Backyards, But The Perpetraitors(see what I did there😅) Are Living Right In With Us!.

They Eat With You, Drink With You, Party With You, Play With You, Sleep With You, Heck!, Even Pray For You!…

I’m Not Saying Not To Have Friends, But Having A Lot Is Bad For Your Health, Literally! 👀

DID YOU KNOW?: Studies Have Shown ~ And I Can Personally Assure You ~ That Plans, Dreams, & Wishes You Tell People Has A 70 – 80% Likely Chance Of Not Coming To Fruition!

I Know Everyone Needs Someone To Listen… We All Feel To Tell Someone Everything… But Still…

Don’t Tell People What Your Plan Is… Show Them What Your Plan Was… – Spizzerinctum™

† Planning Your Own House?, Let The House Warming Ring The Bells

† Planning On Your Marriage?, Your Invitation Card After You’re FULLY Prepared Should Do!

† Having A Scholarship Or Travelling Abroad?, So Long They Ain’t The Ones Sponsoring You – Use Your foreign Number To Tell Them (If They Hating Now, They Was Gonn’ Hate Before You LeftFACT!)

Not Everyone Is Your Friend!, Even Sometimes Family! – FACT!

Keep Your Circle Small, And Your Mouth Shut! – Adegbite Precious Durodeoluwa

THE SOVEREIGNTY OF THE FEMALE GENDER!🦸‍♀️

WOMEN ARE GODS!, YES – GODS!

It Is Often Said That Women Are Weak…

That Women Are The Inferior Gender To Men…

That Women Don’t Add Much Value To The Society Education-Wise / Politically… Seriously?! 😒🙄

“They” Keep Saying Women Are Meant To Serve Men…

Oh, You Know What… You’re Probably Right… 😉

Bring Your Ear”, I Want To Whisper Something In It… 🙃

SHUT THE F**K UP! 🤬 😡

WTF You Think You Are?!

† When You Can Bleed Profusely At Approximately 48 Weeks/Year And Still Stand – Then You Can Come At Me

† When You Can Carry Another Soul In Your Belly For Nine Month, Nuture It, Abstain From Things That Could Hurt It, While Still Making Sure The Home Is In Perfect Order… – Come At Me, I’d Still Prove You Wrong!

† Tell Me If You Can Drop Your Surname To Take On Another’s…

† Tell Me If You Can Wake Up Four Hours Earlier Than Everyone Just To Make Everyone Good To Go – Bathing The Children… Cleaning The House… Preparing The Meal… Making Sure The Kids Aren’t Late/They Don’t Miss Their Ride… All, While Still Managing Herself To Get To Work Early… (That Is If She Didn’t Quit Her Job In The First Place)

There’s Nothing More I Love More Than A Trying Mother… Those People, Are Goddesses!

You See Men Trash Talking A Lady, Most Even Beat Their Woman _ What Are You?… A Dog?! (Even Dogs Literally Can’t) _ You With An Higher Initiative, “Beats” His Woman… 🤦‍♂️

Maybe You Have No One To Tell You – But, You’re Insane – You’re Everything Below The Stats Of An Animal!

I Know Women Are Weak (Even Not, It’s Just Their Heart) – So You Think You Can Play On That, Just ‘Cause She’s Weak For You? SMH 🤦‍♂️…

Most Ladies I’ve Met _ If Not All, It’ll Be At Least 90% Of ‘Em That Has That Same Issue – The ~ My Dad Loves Women Alot And Treats My Mum Like Trash ~ Kind…

And Still, These Beautiful Goddesses Keep Going – They Still Prepare Your Meals They Still Even Assist You Financially – They Still Take Care Of Your Kids!

|Just So You Know, My Case… Is The Absolute Opposite Of This 👀| But Still…

How About Child Birth!?

Ordinary Poop Out Of Your Ass And Your Eyes Wants To Pop Out 🙄😏

Multiply That By 100 And Try To Fit It Through Your External Urethral Orifice 😒😏… You’d Know Women Are The Greatest!

Do You Think Adam Would Wake Up If God Wasn’t Done With Eve?

It Is Popularly Said That “If A Man Has Money, It’s Through His Wife You’d Know”. But It’s Going Into Oblivion In Our Modern World… Most Men Love Acting “God-Father” To Outsiders While Their Own Family Is In Needs…

If What You Have Isn’t Enough Just Yet, Use It On Your Family! (You’d Be Certain Anyone Outside Your Circle Saying “Shebi He’s Taking Care Of His Family, And He’s Saying He Doesn’t Have” Is Mad – In fact, Mad Is An Under rating Of The Person’s Ailment)

And When God Has Blessed You With More, You’d Know He Gave You For A Reason – To Bless Others Too – Don’t Hesitate To Give To The Needy… You Didn’t Bless Yourself, God Did!

Make Sure Your Home Is Secure First… If You Want To Change The World, It Starts From Right There!.

Keep Your Circle Close… Real Close _ Especially Those Goddesses – Keep ‘Em Shining… ‘Cause They’re Strong, They’re Queens Doing The Work Of Slaves(For Those That Do – You Rock!… Y’all Are The Best)

|[DISCLAIMER Here Is: Not All Women Are Like This Though, Some Ladies Pride Is Over WeighedSome Loves Nagging Some, Well, Don’t Care What The Future 🔮 Holds – They Do What They Like, Believing They’re Equal With Men – Which Is Not Possible – It Has Been So From The Start Of Time ⌚.

God Made Men The Head – Which Is Useless Without The Entire BodyWOMEN!

Respect Every Woman You Meet (Unless It Isn’t Reciprocal), ‘Cause It’s Rare To Come Across A Goddess With The Strength Of A Thousand Men!]|

NOT EVERYONE IS YOUR FRIEND!, EVEN YOUR “FRIEND”!

There Are Some Facts About Friends… Friendships… Relationships

I Am An Introvert & I Mostly Only Prefer The Company Of Me, Myself & I…

† About 4/5 Of Your Friends Are Jealous Of You

† All Your Friends Have Other Friends Closer Than You Are… – FACT!, Your Bestie Has Another Bestie, Your Twinnie Has Another Twinnie Closer Than You Are… Your Loml Has Another Loml…

At Least 2/5 Of Your All Your Friends Hate You – FACT!

† Almost “NONE” Of Your Friends Want The ‘Absolute’ Best For You; If You Succeed Before Any Of Them, That Hate Will Come Naturally, Even If They Don’t Mean To FACT!

† Of All Your Friends (Not Based On A 5 Scale Now), That Is Having About 20 – 30 – 50 – 100+ Friends, Or Even More!, Only About 2 Or 3 Are Real, Sometimes; Only 1 Or Even NONE! – FACT!

Even If You Have A Million Friends, To Come Across Real Ones Is Scarce… _ This Sometimes, Most Painfully Applies To Even Families Too…

Family Members,- Extended Families The Most; Wanna Know A Secret?, Those Inside People, They’re The Worst!

Can I Get A Resounding Amen?! 👏👏

While This Applies To Most Families (And I Mean Most), There Are Still Some With The Unbreakable Trust Bond Amongst Themselves…

The Extended One However, Is Not Exempted! 👀

Tell Me, How Realistic Is It To See Your Own Child Struggling And The Child Of One Your Relatives Making Things On Things And Still Smile?

Some Will Even Call To Tell You!

You Calling Is Somewhat A Good Thing, (Since Your Motive Is Pure. Well, Unless It Isn’t 🤨) You Calling Out Of Joy!… But You Can’t Read Minds Now, Can You?

DISCLAIMER: There Are Still These Certain 1 in 8 Billion Kind Of People That’ll Do Anything For You Though…

» They’re Always Up For You

» Those People Will Never Speak Against You, They’d Rather Leave The Place Or (Depending On The Person) Defend You

» They’re Easy To Lose

» They’re The Ones We Tend To Maltreat Mostly

» They Are GAURDIAN ANGELS In Human Form