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Aug 5, 2020

John Wesley Had This For His Rule In Life:

Do All The Good You Can,

By All The Means You Can,

In All The Ways You Can,

In All The Places You Can,

At All The Times You Can,

To All The People You Can,

As Long As Ever As You Can!

In This Post Is A Mini Awakening To What It Really Means To Be Good.

If We Will Ever Be Able To Boast That We Are Indeed Good To Everyone, There Are Certain Things That Must Reflect In Our Lives

When One Of Our Relations Is Overtaken By A Fault, Instead Of Tongue-Lashing Them Or Passing Out Negative Comments About Them (Which Is Often What We Are Firstly Tempted To Do As Humans...)

Rather, We Should Correct In Love, We Should Try As Much As Possible To Be Good…

If There’s One Important Lesson I’ve Learnt In Life… It’s That People WILL Offend You… And There’s Nothing You Can Do To Stop Them… In That Knowledge, Don’t Let An Outside Negative Energy Change Who You Really Are… (If You’re One Of The Good Ones Of Course! And If You Aren’t, Well Change! You Might Be The One In Need Next… You’d Never Know)

In This World, Where People Have Built High Walls Around Themselves, Noticing Other People’s Need Isn’t Something You Can Decide To Do…

But As An “Helping Hand”, Once It’s Evident Someone Is In Need, Or They Come To Us Specifically For Help… Then It’s An Obligation, If The Needs Are Honest. (You Never Know Who’s Going To Be Your Helping Hand, Remember, What You Sow, You Reap.

And What’s That They Say;

“What Goes Around, Comes Right Back Around!”


Aug 3, 2020

For The Past 10 Years, British Photographer David Weightman has taken photos of Beaming, Mostly Young Couples On Their Wedding Day.

Last Year, He Decided To Turn His Camera On Another Kind Of Couple In Attendance; Couples With Decades Of Marriage Under Their Belts.

Then He Asked The Marriage Vets To Sit For A Photo And Share Their Secrets To A Happy, Long-Lasting Relationship.

The Secret: TOLERANCE!

It’s A Give And Take, A Kiss Good Night At The End Of The Day, No Matter The Count Of Arguments You Had, A Specific Woman Named Joyce, Said Of Her 66-Year Marriage.

Her Husband, James, Had A Simpler Recipe For Marital Success: “Doing What I’m Told”, He Joked To Weightman.

Living Together Is One Of The Most Difficult Tasks For Humans. Sometimes We Turn Our Differences Into Walls Instead Of Bridges, But Taking Christ As An Example, We Will Know That The Life We Have In Christ Is Not For Ourselves But For Others.

We Must Learn To Bear With The Weaknesses Of Others The Same Way Christ Bore Ours And Be Willing To Give Others Allowance, The Same Way We Have Enjoyed From Christ.

Humans Are “Imperfect”, We’re Bound To Make Mistakes, Especially The Silly Ones. To Live In Harmony, You Must Have That Fact In Mind And Be Always Ready To Forgive And Forget.


Jul 19, 2020

There Was Once A Story Said Of A Man Who Refused Several Warnings Against Alcohol And Cigarette.

As It Was Said, He Promised His Friends He ‘Must’ Celebrate The Next Christmas With A New Car.

Well, As Expected, He Got The Car But Drove Into An Electric Pole And Died While Flaunting It On Christmas Eve, Under The Influence Of Alcohol.

One Of The Most Common Judgement We Are Familiar With… Is The Judgement Of GOD

There Are Many Places In The Bible That Has Shown God’s Wrath Upon The Unrepentant Israel

Over And Over… He Judges Them… Shows Them Mercy, It Gets Into Their Heads, They Act Up… He Judges Them Again.

In The World Today, There Are Drunks, Cultist, Fraudsters, Prostitutes, Homosexuals, Lesbians, Gays, Murderers, Liars… And Many More Of Which Most Indulge In Pornography, Abortion, Crazy Fashion, Examination Malpractices And Masturbation (Which Is The “MVP” Of This Acts, Since It’s A Quick Resolution To Urges Compared To Fornication Which Is Also Rampant)

As Much As I’ve Been A Victim Myself, To Some Of These Acts… I Understand Perfectly What The Diabolic Word; “ADDICTION” Means.

Overcoming That Addiction Or Desires Is What I Think Is Supposedly The Aim Of Our ‘Human’ Journey.

What Is Bad Is Bad… And Until Death ☠ Which Ends All Life… We All Have The Chance To Set “It” Right With God To Avoid His JUDGEMENT.

On What I Said In An Earlier Post About Hypocrisy, While It’s Rampant Of How We’re All Involved In One Of These Behaviours… It Would Be Wrong Of Me To Condemn Anyone For Being Involved In Any Of ‘Em.

And I Believe, There’s A Reason For Everything… For Everything We Do, Either Good Or Bad… There’s Always A Reason!

Most Times, We’re Just Blinded By Our Haste To Judge Others. Being Blind-Folded To Our Own Faults.


Jul 18, 2020

The Media Went Wild When Ted Haggard (An American Evangelical Pastor, The Founder And Former Pastor Of New Life Church In Colorado Springs.) , Who Used to preach against Homosexuality ⚣, Was Involved In It.

Hypocrisy, As We Know It, Is Pretending To Be Something You’re Not Or Even Intend To Be. Sometimes, It’s Even When You’re Paying More Attention To Reputation Than To Your Character.

Let’s Take A look At The “So-called” Leaders (Not All Are, But, They’ve Contaminated The God-Sent)

Jesus, Back In His Days, Never Minced Words About Hypocrisy and Hypocrites. It Was Evident Of How He Directly Confronted The Religious Hypocrites Back Then, The Scribes, Pharisees, The Elite And Learned People At That Time (Of Which There Are Still Pretty Much Evident Now)

They Hated And Arrested Him On Trumped Up Charges.

Some Christians, While Being Skeptical About Being “Contaminated” By The Unbelievers, They Exhibit Self-Righteousness

Hypocrisy, In Our Today World Is Being Manifested In Various Ways Such As; Giving To The Less Privileged Publicly Or Uploading It To The Social Media Of Their Choice | Fasting And Praying Publicly |

(A Part Of The Bible Scolds This Act; )

“When You Pray, Do Not Be Like The ‘Hypocrites’! They Love To Stand In The House Of Worship And On Street Corners, So That Everyone Will See Them. I Assure You, They Have Already Been Paid In Full.

Matthew 6:5 GNB

The Bible Furthermore Tells How To Pray In The Succeeding Verses.

The Most Obvious Manifestation Of The Hypocritic Act Is How We Sometimes Complain About Someone Else’s Behaviour When Ours Is Even Worse!

I Understand We’re All “Humans” Yes, And Humans Are Faulty As… But As Hard As It Can Be, Try To Be Original And Genuine In All You Do… You Won’t Regret It!


There Are Some Facts About Friends… Friendships… Relationships

I Am An Introvert & I Mostly Only Prefer The Company Of Me, Myself & I…

† About 4/5 Of Your Friends Are Jealous Of You

† All Your Friends Have Other Friends Closer Than You Are… – FACT!, Your Bestie Has Another Bestie, Your Twinnie Has Another Twinnie Closer Than You Are… Your Loml Has Another Loml…

At Least 2/5 Of Your All Your Friends Hate You – FACT!

† Almost “NONE” Of Your Friends Want The ‘Absolute’ Best For You; If You Succeed Before Any Of Them, That Hate Will Come Naturally, Even If They Don’t Mean To FACT!

† Of All Your Friends (Not Based On A 5 Scale Now), That Is Having About 20 – 30 – 50 – 100+ Friends, Or Even More!, Only About 2 Or 3 Are Real, Sometimes; Only 1 Or Even NONE! – FACT!

Even If You Have A Million Friends, To Come Across Real Ones Is Scarce… _ This Sometimes, Most Painfully Applies To Even Families Too…

Family Members,- Extended Families The Most; Wanna Know A Secret?, Those Inside People, They’re The Worst!

Can I Get A Resounding Amen?! 👏👏

While This Applies To Most Families (And I Mean Most), There Are Still Some With The Unbreakable Trust Bond Amongst Themselves…

The Extended One However, Is Not Exempted! 👀

Tell Me, How Realistic Is It To See Your Own Child Struggling And The Child Of One Your Relatives Making Things On Things And Still Smile?

Some Will Even Call To Tell You!

You Calling Is Somewhat A Good Thing, (Since Your Motive Is Pure. Well, Unless It Isn’t 🤨) You Calling Out Of Joy!… But You Can’t Read Minds Now, Can You?

DISCLAIMER: There Are Still These Certain 1 in 8 Billion Kind Of People That’ll Do Anything For You Though…

» They’re Always Up For You

» Those People Will Never Speak Against You, They’d Rather Leave The Place Or (Depending On The Person) Defend You

» They’re Easy To Lose

» They’re The Ones We Tend To Maltreat Mostly

» They Are GAURDIAN ANGELS In Human Form