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IF YOU RUSH INTO MARRIAGE – IT’S THE SAME WAY YOU’D RUSH OUT

Don’t Establish A Home Until You’re Sure You Earn A Ample Living!

One Of My Favourite Verses Of The Bible Is The Verse 27 Of 24 In Proverbs;

Don’t Build Your House And Establish A Home Until Your Fields Are Ready, And You’re Sure That You Can Earn A Living.

Proverbs 24:27 GNB

Wait, Lemme Ask This Question… Where The Hell Are You Rushing To?!

Who’s Chasing You!?

You Think Marriage Is Just Something You Can Ball Into When You Like?

Well, Ask Around, If It’s The Stories You Want _ Your Ears Will Bleed Out – Believe Me

Don’t Let Anyone Rush You – Don’t Let Anyone Put Pressure On You – Don’t Let Anyone Intimidate You...

‘Cause When You Enter Into It – It’ll Be Just You And Your God – Well, Mostly You…, ‘Cause None Of Them Is Going To Live In It For You…

And When The Storm Comes (- FACT, The One Thing That’s Inevitable In Marriages), You Won’t Have The Ground To Stand…

Why Punish Yourself And Someone Else’s Daughter? (Doesn’t Mean Ladies Shouldn’t Be Ready Too Anything Can Happen, Anytime, Anywhere, Anyhow)…

Why Should You Make Yourself Suffer?

You’d Spend All Flares Of Currency At Your Wedding And Be Living In A One Room Apartment _ Really? 🙄… In A Rented Apartment?!

If You Think Marriage Is Just To Call Someone Your Wife,… Sit Down Enjoy The Rest Of Your Life _ Well, BUMMER ALERT ⚠ ; ‘Cause It’s Not!

You’d Feed, Clothe Yourselves, Pay Fees, Transport (You’d Also Be Thinking Of Getting A Car – Your Own House... C’mon!)

And Believe Me, If You Don’t Use Your Brain, You’d Be Stucked Like That For The Rest Of Your Life (Unless God Shows You An Unmerited Favour _ Bacause You Didn’t Listen In The First Place!)

You Don’t Wanna Take That Chance _ ‘Cause No One Is Chasing You!

Some Men After Marriage, Take Their Wife To Go Live In Their Mother’s House _ Seriously Bro – Grow Up!

If You’re Not Ready, Don’t Even Think Of Trying It… Nobody Will Kneel You Down Or Flog You Because You’re Not Ready To Marry!

It’s First Of All, For Your Own Good, Your Wife’s, Your Future Offsprings’ Well-Being, Their Education, Their State Of MindIt’s All In Your Hands – You’re The Head, The Brain Is In You – USE IT, Don’t Leave It Idle

If She Keeps Disturbing You To Marry Her, Explain To Her!…

If She Can’t Wait, Be Kind Enough To Let Her Go! You’re Doing You Both A Favour, Believe Me…

Even Here, Parents Also Compares Their Children… Something Like; “You Know That ‘Girl’ Is Younger Than You Oh, And She’s Married 👰 With Kids

So Long You Know What You’re Doing, Let Them Talk… This Is Life, All Fingers Ain’t Equal… Everyone’s Time Is Different _ So Is Our Race Track!

Don’t Get Intimidated… Don’t Feel Oppressed

Make Sure Your “Fields” Are Ready — & — You’re Sure You Can Earn A Living – BE WISE!

THE SOVEREIGNTY OF THE FEMALE GENDER!🦸‍♀️

WOMEN ARE GODS!, YES – GODS!

It Is Often Said That Women Are Weak…

That Women Are The Inferior Gender To Men…

That Women Don’t Add Much Value To The Society Education-Wise / Politically… Seriously?! 😒🙄

“They” Keep Saying Women Are Meant To Serve Men…

Oh, You Know What… You’re Probably Right… 😉

Bring Your Ear”, I Want To Whisper Something In It… 🙃

SHUT THE F**K UP! 🤬 😡

WTF You Think You Are?!

† When You Can Bleed Profusely At Approximately 48 Weeks/Year And Still Stand – Then You Can Come At Me

† When You Can Carry Another Soul In Your Belly For Nine Month, Nuture It, Abstain From Things That Could Hurt It, While Still Making Sure The Home Is In Perfect Order… – Come At Me, I’d Still Prove You Wrong!

† Tell Me If You Can Drop Your Surname To Take On Another’s…

† Tell Me If You Can Wake Up Four Hours Earlier Than Everyone Just To Make Everyone Good To Go – Bathing The Children… Cleaning The House… Preparing The Meal… Making Sure The Kids Aren’t Late/They Don’t Miss Their Ride… All, While Still Managing Herself To Get To Work Early… (That Is If She Didn’t Quit Her Job In The First Place)

There’s Nothing More I Love More Than A Trying Mother… Those People, Are Goddesses!

You See Men Trash Talking A Lady, Most Even Beat Their Woman _ What Are You?… A Dog?! (Even Dogs Literally Can’t) _ You With An Higher Initiative, “Beats” His Woman… 🤦‍♂️

Maybe You Have No One To Tell You – But, You’re Insane – You’re Everything Below The Stats Of An Animal!

I Know Women Are Weak (Even Not, It’s Just Their Heart) – So You Think You Can Play On That, Just ‘Cause She’s Weak For You? SMH 🤦‍♂️…

Most Ladies I’ve Met _ If Not All, It’ll Be At Least 90% Of ‘Em That Has That Same Issue – The ~ My Dad Loves Women Alot And Treats My Mum Like Trash ~ Kind…

And Still, These Beautiful Goddesses Keep Going – They Still Prepare Your Meals They Still Even Assist You Financially – They Still Take Care Of Your Kids!

|Just So You Know, My Case… Is The Absolute Opposite Of This 👀| But Still…

How About Child Birth!?

Ordinary Poop Out Of Your Ass And Your Eyes Wants To Pop Out 🙄😏

Multiply That By 100 And Try To Fit It Through Your External Urethral Orifice 😒😏… You’d Know Women Are The Greatest!

Do You Think Adam Would Wake Up If God Wasn’t Done With Eve?

It Is Popularly Said That “If A Man Has Money, It’s Through His Wife You’d Know”. But It’s Going Into Oblivion In Our Modern World… Most Men Love Acting “God-Father” To Outsiders While Their Own Family Is In Needs…

If What You Have Isn’t Enough Just Yet, Use It On Your Family! (You’d Be Certain Anyone Outside Your Circle Saying “Shebi He’s Taking Care Of His Family, And He’s Saying He Doesn’t Have” Is Mad – In fact, Mad Is An Under rating Of The Person’s Ailment)

And When God Has Blessed You With More, You’d Know He Gave You For A Reason – To Bless Others Too – Don’t Hesitate To Give To The Needy… You Didn’t Bless Yourself, God Did!

Make Sure Your Home Is Secure First… If You Want To Change The World, It Starts From Right There!.

Keep Your Circle Close… Real Close _ Especially Those Goddesses – Keep ‘Em Shining… ‘Cause They’re Strong, They’re Queens Doing The Work Of Slaves(For Those That Do – You Rock!… Y’all Are The Best)

|[DISCLAIMER Here Is: Not All Women Are Like This Though, Some Ladies Pride Is Over WeighedSome Loves Nagging Some, Well, Don’t Care What The Future 🔮 Holds – They Do What They Like, Believing They’re Equal With Men – Which Is Not Possible – It Has Been So From The Start Of Time ⌚.

God Made Men The Head – Which Is Useless Without The Entire BodyWOMEN!

Respect Every Woman You Meet (Unless It Isn’t Reciprocal), ‘Cause It’s Rare To Come Across A Goddess With The Strength Of A Thousand Men!]|

DON’T EXPECT ANYONE TO DO ANYTHING FOR YOU

“I Can’t Believe He/’she’ did this to me”

“But You Promised!”

And The Egotistical One…

“Imagine!, A Whole Me!” Is What You’ll Hear…

I Always Wonder, Why Do People Always Expect Others To Do Something For Them?

Listen, Or Read, Even If You Do “The Whole World” For Some Certain People, Theyʼll Still Treat You The Same _ Whoever Will Do Anything For You Will – Even If They’re Inconvenient, Broke Or You Yourself Haven’t Done Anything For Them Earlier… They Don’t Need Favours To Return One.

(Disclaimer Is, You Can Hardly Find Those Kind Of Angels… Rarely!)

So, Here’s An Advice ➡️ DON’T EXPECT!, DON’T DEPEND!… WE’RE HUMANS!, HUMANS FAIL!

I Just Take A Hard Look At Some People When They Say Words Like;

“You Can’t Even Call Me” (This Is Depending On The Situation Though)

I’mma Be Like “What Happened To Your Phone?”, – – For Real, “Did You Loose My Number Or What?”, – – “Why Didn’t You Call Me If You Were Going To Accuse Me?”, – – “What If I Was Sick?”, – – “What If I Was Going Through Something?”

But Seriously Though, That Question Annoys Me!

Everyone Is Busy, Everyone Is Trying To Earn Money, Everyone Is Struggling With SomethingFACT!

If You Wanna Hear My Voice – Call Me!

If You Ain’t Hearing My Voice – Call Me!

If You Still Don’t Hear My Voice – Stop Calling [It’s Not Pride, It’s SELF RESPECT]

Not That, You Don’t Even Have My Number And You’re Painting Me Bad Somewhere To People That Don’t Know You Yourself Have Never Called; Your Story’s Gotta Be Sweet Right?, Well F-Word You!

This Egoistical Expectation Occurs More In Parties, Celebrations, ~ Somewhere You Think They Should Honour You ¦ Put You On The “High Table”

Yeah, It Sounds Kinda Funny Buh It’s Real!

Some Will Be Expecting One Big Warmer And Probably A Wine, And Boom: They’ll Be Handed A Plastic Take-Away Plate With A Malt Or Even Fanta… There, The Grudge Begins…

Some Will Be Expecting To Be Named As A VIP In An Event, But Wouldn’t Even Be Mentioned Throughout The Event!

When Invited To A Mini-Party 🎉 Where Maybe A Goat🐐 Or A Chicken🐔 Was Killed… Some Will Say To Themselves, “Shebi He’s The One That Invited Me, He Should Have Something Special For Me”

Bummer Alert!⚠ : Your Brother, Close Friend, Best Friend, Or Even Work Mate Could Invite You “Specially” And You’d Take What Everyone Else WillFACT!

If They Will, They Will!

If They Did, But For Some Reason, Couldn’t? UNDERSTAND!

No One Was Born To Satisfy You, Even Your “Slave” Can’t…

Set Your Mind Up _ Anyone, And I Mean Anyone! Could Disappoint You Anytime, Probably Not Because They Wish To, But Have No Choice – WE’RE HUMANS!

Spizzerinctum

May 6, 2020

Before You Think Of Giving Life Up – Calm Down!

Before You Let Your Ego Ruin Your Relationship – Calm Down

Before You “Break That Person’s Head” – Calm Down

Before You Start A Grudge With That Person That “Should” Say “Sorry” – Calm Down

Before You Let Jealousy Take Over – Calm Down

Before You Attempt To Do Something That You Might Regret – Calm Down | Breathe In, Breathe Out. Now Ask Yourself

Is It Worth It?

People Are Bond To Offend Us…

As Matter Of Fact, People Are Meant To Offend Us… We Certainly Can’t Deny The Fact That We’ve Offended Others Too… That’s Just How It Goes

You Need To Learn How To Forgive… It’ll Help Against Negative Energies 🧘‍♂️

They’re Certain Offences People Can [Will] Commit Against Us… But Unless They Don’t Want To Admit What They Did × [Which In My Case, I Believe You Should Sometimes Show People The Era Of Their Ways… After Patience, Of Course 👀] × Vengeance Never Solves Anything… Anything…

You Really Don’t Have To Go All Out…

If They Were Worth A Place In Your Universe, They’ll Be Humble Enough To Admit Their Mistakes… Not Blame It On You Or Someone Else…

This Thing Called Ego Is One Of The Thousand Factors Ruining Relationships Nowadays…

You Feel The Other Should Say Sorry First…

“How Can He/She Do That To Me… Me!?” – Said Someone Who’s Nothing… Believe Me, The Strongest People Are Those Who Seek The Retribution Of Their Relationship/Marriage _ Not Those Waiting For An Apology…

If At A Certain Age Of “Maturity”, You Still “Expect” From People, Or You “Expect” Someone To Do Something, Or You Didn’t “Expect” Someone Could Do What They Did To You… Sorry To Tell You; But, You’re One Of The Many Dumb People On This Planet…

Get With The Program…

Anything Can, And Will Happen… You Don’t Have To Act All Childish About It… Calm The F**k Down!

Self Awareness × [Which Sometimes Is A Good Thing] × Is Something That Creates Problems For Most Of Us… You Don’t Wanna Let Go… Buh You Don’t Wanna Be The Underdog Either… It’s Side Effects Are Ego And Pride… And The Inevitable Outcome Is Doing Something, Well, – Out Of Context

So, Before You Take That Decision, Either You’re Over Excited… Or Over Anxious… Or Under Pressure… Remember To CALM DOMN 🙂

Spizzerinctum

Apr 28, 2020

I Love You So Much! I Can Die For You!… Right… 😒, Sure You Can… Even Jesus Did & People Still Don’t Reference Him.

In The World We’ve Come To Have Today…

I LOVE YOU, Is Now More Of A Mind-Off Quote Than A Heart-Felt Statement…

The Word LOVE Has Come So Far, Through The Centuries, Morphing Into Whatever It Is Today…

People Now Have Different Meanings For The Word LOVE… People Call It What They See It As…

Some Other Morphed Name For It May Be;

SEX – This One’s The Most Common… (It So Happens To Be Said In This Category, That “If You Don’t Sleep With Me, It Means You Don’t Love Me”.) Have You Forgotten That A Day Will Come That Sex Will Irritate You… And You Won’t Even Be Able To Move A Sexual Muscle, Now Tell Me, What Would Hold Your Marriage/Relationship Down Then?… Sex? OR True Love?

MONEY – Most People (Especially Ladies… Mostly Ladies… 95% Of The Times – Ladies! 👀) Believes If You Don’t Spend Money In A Relationship, You Don’t Love Them… [Most Ladies I’ve “Met” In My Life, Don’t Really Go By This… So Are Other Millions Of Ladies Out There That Don’t Need Your Money To Love You… But 👀😅]

POSITION – (Sounds Weird To Be There, But Believe Me It Is…) This Deals Mostly On How We Place Ourselves… While It’s Important In A Relationship To Text And Make Calls, I Could Text You Or Call You Or Give You My Attention 24/7, It Doesn’t Certify That I Do Love You. “Lust” Is Not “Love” – Know The Difference. [I Wish To Emphasise More On This, But Let’s Leave The Figuring Out To Our Beautiful And Kindred Minds… Shall We?]

TIPS OF LIFE FROM THE TACIT VOICE

Show “Love” To EVERYONE
Be Nice, Be Kind…
You Never Know, If It’ll Be The Last Thing You’d Do
You Never Know, If It’ll Be The Last Thing They’d Experience
Friends And Enemies Alike. DON’T GRUDGE

[“Please, Don’t Take Me As A Preacher (‘Cause I’m Not!). I’ve said That In My Earlier Posts, Where I Made References To The Bible. “I’m Just An Introvert Who Reads His Bible Rather Than Wait Around For Someone To Tell Him Fabricated Stories Of It”. Also, What I Speak Of On My Blog Is The Realities Of Life, And “The Bible” Happens To Be All About That 🤷‍♂️”]

There’s This Particular Chapter In That Splendiferous Word Of God That Intrigues Me On What The True Meaning Of Love Is…

Times And Over, I’d Pounder, I’d Read It Over And Over Again… I Understand It Though, (I Guess God Made Me Understand 🤷‍♂️🙇‍♂️)…

But When I Look At The World Around Me… Around Us… It Just Doesn’t Feel Right!

Love Is Patient And Kind;

It Is Not Jealous Or Conceited Or Proud;

Love Is Not Ill-Mannered Or Selfish Or Irritable;

Love Does Not Keep A Record Of Wrongs;

Love Is Not Happy With Evil, But Is Happy With The Truth;

Love Never Gives Up; And It’s Faith, Hope, And Patience Never Fail.

Love Is Eternal!

1 Corinthians 13:4 – 8ª

Read This, Read It, Continue Reading It, Keep Reading It, And When You’re “Done”; Read It Again!

I Don’t Know Who Needs To See This, I Don’t Know Who In The World Is Urgently In Need Of The Understanding Of These Words…

Whoever It is, Either You Reading This, Or Someone You Know,… Don’t Wear Yourself Out Trying To Find Love… You Have A Guideline From Your Creator; Follow It.

LOVE IS ETERNAL! 💖