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BEATING A CHILD AIN’T DISCIPLINE, IT’S CHILD ABUSE!

You Don’t Have To Beat Children Half-To-Life To Correct Them… For God’s sake!, They’re Children!, CHILDREN!!

My Father👨‍👧‍👦 Used To Tell Us, When We Did Something Wrong, That Even The Bible Says “Spare The Rod And Spoil The Child”…

Even So, One Of The Unmeasurable Reasons I’d Never Stop Loving My Dad _ He Hardly Touched Us With Cane – He Even Bought An Horse Whip One Time, – Till It Went Into Oblivion, I’m Not Sure I Saw The Horse Whip Twice… Even If I Was Still As Stubborn As… 😅

And With That, I’d Respect Him Forever! 😊

The Bible Didn’t Say Kill Your Child🙄… Even, Doesn’t It Budge You To See Your Own Child Cry🤨😑?!

[Poverty Also Creates This Aggression, Why You Have To Make Sure You’re Financially Stable Before You Marry (Click On The Link Here To Read More)]

There are Safer Ways You Can Punish A Child _ Give Him/Her Work To Do🧹, _ Set Them To Physical Exercises🧘‍♂️ _ Give Them Brain Teasers To Deal With✏️📖… Speak With Love And Support!…

Inflicting Physical Injuries To A Child – A Child! – All In The Name Of Correction Is MADNESS! _ I Repeat _ Absolute MADNESS!🤬

Some Parents Are So “Strict”, Their Children Can’t Even Tell Them The Truth… They Have No Choice But To Lie, ‘Cause They Know You… (Jagaban!, Lion Of The Home…) What Type Of Future Do You Think You’re Making For Them?!

From Home, They’d Start Lying To Their Teachers, Mates, And Pretty Much Anyone… And When It Helps Them Avoid The “Spanking” You So Much Love To Inflict On ‘Em, They’d See It As The Best Option To Get Out Trouble… And If Not Controlled… Well, I’m Sure Everyone Knows What All Liars Are…

Not All Parents Are Like This Though… I Know Some… And For That… I Say Kudos!… Let Your Child Be Able To Relate With You… Be Your Child’s Best Friend… If You Don’t Listen To The Little Things Now… They’d Never Tell You The Big Things Later… Never!

Now, B-T-B;… 👀

Some Will Give A Knock To A Child ON THE HEAD!_? 😧

I Once Saw A Woman Give A Knock To – I Suppose The Girl Is Her Daughter – A Girl Around The Age Of 3-4; Sure She Couldn’t Be More Than 5y/o👧 Though…

For The Fear And Love of God, That’s Her Workstation! ‘🧠’ ,

And Obviously, It Could Cause Any Physical Impairment or Mental Illness To The Poor Girl… SMH🤦‍♂️

A Child Can’t Stop Being A Child Until They Grow From Being One… You Can’t Expect A Full Grown Corn From A Young Shoot, It Takes Process, It Takes PatienceCare, Protection, Endurance, And Above All; LOVE!

And The Factual Truth Is No Matter How You Beat A Child, It Doesn’t Necessarily Mean The Child Will Change… ( You Have To Have Their Key )

Now The Fact Here Is : Everyone Has A Unique Way Of Being Approached

I, Personally, Hate Being Shouted At😅😶, Like It Irritates Me _ Don’t Get Me Wrong, I Don’t Mean I Hate Correction _ Hell Not! _

People Close To Me Have Gotten Used To Speaking In An Accommodating Voice When Correcting Me _ Well, All Except One 👀… My Dad

He Doesn’t Reason That With Me😅, He’d Correct Me Still With That High Picthed Voice… I On The Other Hand Have Gotten Used To This… ‘Cause I Understand The Way He Expresses His Mind, And Also, He’s My Father!. So…

Some May Be The Reverse Of Mine, That If You’re Being Gentle; They Won’t Listen…

You Just Have To Know How Your Child Works… Know When To Keep Calm And When To Talk… And When You do; How You Do Is Also Important.

While I’m Pointing Out About Kids Here _ Pretty Sure It Applies To Teens And Youths, Even Adults Too!

Get To Understand Your Child, Know How Your Child Works, How He/She Thinks, How They Reason;- Which Is The Child Education,

But That’s Another Realm Of The Tacit Voice _ Be Sure To Check It Out!

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Mar 20, 2020

HOW TO SPOT A FAKE PASTOR

Nowadays, Churches After Churches Are Built…

More People Rising Up To Become “Pastors”

More Self-Appointed People Are Rising Day-By-Day To Claim This Title “Pastor”, All In The Name Of This Authority The Society Has Attached To It

Today, I’m Going To Be Analysing The Obvious Facts We Just Tend To See, But Do Nothing About… Just Like Dumb Puppets (All In The Name Of He’s A Pastor) SMH 🤦‍♂️

So Let’s Get Started!, Shall We?

† THEY EMPHASISE A LOT ON MONEY:

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It’s Overrated!, Almost Every Church You Go To Nowadays, About 80% Of Their Sermon Is On Money!

Don’t Believe Me? Check Out My Analysis Of That In My Previous Post: “THE RELIGIOUS EMPHASIS ON MONEY”

It’s Like Winning Money Is Now More Important Than Winning Souls…

I Wouldn’t Want To Be Too Repetitive On Things Check The Post Out To Read More On This Part

TIPS OF LIFE FROM THE TACIT VOICE:

If You’re Purchasing Something For The First Time, Buy Just One

† THEY CLAIM POWER: (They Speak With A Little Over-The-Edge)

It’s Like There’s Something Attached To This Particular Title “Pastor”… I Mean, It’s Obvious That People In High Places Tend To Act Like “gods”, Buh Those Self-acclaimed Entities That Unfortunately Are “Reflecting” God’s Authority.

WTF! Is This!? 🤬🤦‍♂️

OK So, A Guy In A Suit Claims To Call “God” On Phone… On A “Phone”, And Someone Dumb-Asses Are Cheering Him On… WTF! Is Wrong With Us!?

You Know, It’s Not That Obnoxious (Even If It Damn Is) That He Makes That Claim… What Is More Infuriating Is The Way That, That Large Amount Of A Crowd Is Cheering Him Up… Seriously!?

Can Someone Please Explain WTF! 🤬 Is Going On Here!?

OK So, Another Self-Imposed Dumb-Ass In A Suit, Is Brutally Kicking A Woman Right In Front Of How Many Hundreds Of Persons Present, But He’s A Pastor Right!… Well Shove That Title Up His Ass!

THIS IS ALL INFURIATING! 🤬 😤

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Aug 3, 2020

For The Past 10 Years, British Photographer David Weightman has taken photos of Beaming, Mostly Young Couples On Their Wedding Day.

Last Year, He Decided To Turn His Camera On Another Kind Of Couple In Attendance; Couples With Decades Of Marriage Under Their Belts.

Then He Asked The Marriage Vets To Sit For A Photo And Share Their Secrets To A Happy, Long-Lasting Relationship.

The Secret: TOLERANCE!

It’s A Give And Take, A Kiss Good Night At The End Of The Day, No Matter The Count Of Arguments You Had, A Specific Woman Named Joyce, Said Of Her 66-Year Marriage.

Her Husband, James, Had A Simpler Recipe For Marital Success: “Doing What I’m Told”, He Joked To Weightman.

Living Together Is One Of The Most Difficult Tasks For Humans. Sometimes We Turn Our Differences Into Walls Instead Of Bridges, But Taking Christ As An Example, We Will Know That The Life We Have In Christ Is Not For Ourselves But For Others.

We Must Learn To Bear With The Weaknesses Of Others The Same Way Christ Bore Ours And Be Willing To Give Others Allowance, The Same Way We Have Enjoyed From Christ.

Humans Are “Imperfect”, We’re Bound To Make Mistakes, Especially The Silly Ones. To Live In Harmony, You Must Have That Fact In Mind And Be Always Ready To Forgive And Forget.

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Jul 19, 2020

There Was Once A Story Said Of A Man Who Refused Several Warnings Against Alcohol And Cigarette.

As It Was Said, He Promised His Friends He ‘Must’ Celebrate The Next Christmas With A New Car.

Well, As Expected, He Got The Car But Drove Into An Electric Pole And Died While Flaunting It On Christmas Eve, Under The Influence Of Alcohol.

One Of The Most Common Judgement We Are Familiar With… Is The Judgement Of GOD

There Are Many Places In The Bible That Has Shown God’s Wrath Upon The Unrepentant Israel

Over And Over… He Judges Them… Shows Them Mercy, It Gets Into Their Heads, They Act Up… He Judges Them Again.

In The World Today, There Are Drunks, Cultist, Fraudsters, Prostitutes, Homosexuals, Lesbians, Gays, Murderers, Liars… And Many More Of Which Most Indulge In Pornography, Abortion, Crazy Fashion, Examination Malpractices And Masturbation (Which Is The “MVP” Of This Acts, Since It’s A Quick Resolution To Urges Compared To Fornication Which Is Also Rampant)

As Much As I’ve Been A Victim Myself, To Some Of These Acts… I Understand Perfectly What The Diabolic Word; “ADDICTION” Means.

Overcoming That Addiction Or Desires Is What I Think Is Supposedly The Aim Of Our ‘Human’ Journey.

What Is Bad Is Bad… And Until Death ☠ Which Ends All Life… We All Have The Chance To Set “It” Right With God To Avoid His JUDGEMENT.

On What I Said In An Earlier Post About Hypocrisy, While It’s Rampant Of How We’re All Involved In One Of These Behaviours… It Would Be Wrong Of Me To Condemn Anyone For Being Involved In Any Of ‘Em.

And I Believe, There’s A Reason For Everything… For Everything We Do, Either Good Or Bad… There’s Always A Reason!

Most Times, We’re Just Blinded By Our Haste To Judge Others. Being Blind-Folded To Our Own Faults.

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Jul 18, 2020

The Media Went Wild When Ted Haggard (An American Evangelical Pastor, The Founder And Former Pastor Of New Life Church In Colorado Springs.) , Who Used to preach against Homosexuality ⚣, Was Involved In It.

Hypocrisy, As We Know It, Is Pretending To Be Something You’re Not Or Even Intend To Be. Sometimes, It’s Even When You’re Paying More Attention To Reputation Than To Your Character.

Let’s Take A look At The “So-called” Leaders (Not All Are, But, They’ve Contaminated The God-Sent)

Jesus, Back In His Days, Never Minced Words About Hypocrisy and Hypocrites. It Was Evident Of How He Directly Confronted The Religious Hypocrites Back Then, The Scribes, Pharisees, The Elite And Learned People At That Time (Of Which There Are Still Pretty Much Evident Now)

They Hated And Arrested Him On Trumped Up Charges.

Some Christians, While Being Skeptical About Being “Contaminated” By The Unbelievers, They Exhibit Self-Righteousness

Hypocrisy, In Our Today World Is Being Manifested In Various Ways Such As; Giving To The Less Privileged Publicly Or Uploading It To The Social Media Of Their Choice | Fasting And Praying Publicly |

(A Part Of The Bible Scolds This Act; )

“When You Pray, Do Not Be Like The ‘Hypocrites’! They Love To Stand In The House Of Worship And On Street Corners, So That Everyone Will See Them. I Assure You, They Have Already Been Paid In Full.

Matthew 6:5 GNB

The Bible Furthermore Tells How To Pray In The Succeeding Verses.

The Most Obvious Manifestation Of The Hypocritic Act Is How We Sometimes Complain About Someone Else’s Behaviour When Ours Is Even Worse!

I Understand We’re All “Humans” Yes, And Humans Are Faulty As… But As Hard As It Can Be, Try To Be Original And Genuine In All You Do… You Won’t Regret It!

THE CHILD EDUCATION III

The Heights Of Curiosity As A Child

The Heights Of Curiosity As A Kid Has No Boundaries… They Wanna Know How Everything Works…

Most Times I See Parents Beating Their Child For Breaking Their Toy… Really?

Your Kid Loves To Detach Stuffs? _ And You Want To Kill Him/Her (Beating The Innocent, Passion Driven Child _ Some Even Do It To A Point The Child Bleeds_)

Really?… C’mon!

I’m Not Talking About Breaking Valuable Stuffs Like Your Phone (You Should Have Kept Your Phone Well Too🙄) Or Your Laptop Or TV _ You Name It! But…

(You Should Probably Let Them Know It’s Not A Good Behaviour To Break Those Kind Of Valuable Properties By A Mild Correction Not By Beating-Kicking-Knocking > C’mon!, You Can Damage Them Mentally And Emotionally For God’s Sake!)

Stuffs I’m Talking About Are For Example; Their Toys, A Game Console [Probably Not The Expensive One, And If It Is… You Should Know The Age They Should Have It], Talking Dummies Too…

(C’mon! Children Are Curious, They’re Learning Things, They Wanna Know Things, You Should Let Them Explore _ Under Your Supervision Of Course.)

Children Believes Anything Is Possible

In Cartoons Anything Is Possible, Why Do You Think Children Are The Targeted Audience?

Even I, As A Guy Still See Cartoons _ Some People Will Be Like Are You A Kid? _ I Never Really Pay Any Attention To Their Words… ‘Cause It Expands My Imagination & Belief That Anything Is Possible (Which If You Set Your Mind To It, Really Is!)

Even As A Kid, My Dad Wouldn’t Let Me Watch Cartoons😅…,

Can’t Forget; He Broke My Justice League Season 2 CD… It Was So Painful For Me As A Kid… (I Mean, I Was Only At Episode 5 For God Sake! 😭) Lol…

There Was Even One Time He Tried To Break My Tom And Jerry CD, It Was My Mum That Made Him Stop, Saying I LOVE It…

The Love I Had/Have For Cartoons Is Immeasurable, Thank God I Wasn’t The Type Of Kids That Stole To Buy Some Things As A Kid.

My Dad Even Seized My Toys One Time; I Never Really Saw Them Again…

Damn!, Never Realised My Childhood Was This Miserable… 😅

THE CHILD EDUCATION II

From The Early Education… Starting With The Learn-All-I-Can Educational System;

16 Different Subjects Taught By 16 Different Teachers; And The Expectations Of The School Is For ‘Me’ To Know All…

That’s Even Not The Main Point Here... 🤦‍♂️

I’ll Come Back To That One Later, That’s A Different Tacit Tangled With This Messed Up Educational/“University” Timeline.

Most People I’ve Met, When Getting To Know Them Better, Especially In Their Educational Background From Home… Most Has That Same Complaint:

“My Dad Or Mum Wants Me To Be A “Doctor” And That’s Not What I Want To Be”

I, On One Hand, Happen To Be In That Category… As A Growing Kid I Was Fascinated By Computers And Obsessed With How Tech Works… And I Was Also The Type Of Kid That Was Shy… An Absolute Introvert…

Faintly, I Can Still Remember When Dad Asked Me What I Wanted To Be… I Said Happily I Want To Be A Computer Scientist”

[As I Mentioned In One Of My Previous Articles; I Don’t Like Being Shouted On… It Kinda Gives Me Something Related To Hypertension]

I Had No Idea How Big My Dreams Were About To Be Crushed, [OR IS IT THOUGH?!🤔😏] …; My Dad’s In The Medical Line… And He Said; “Why Don’t I join the Medical Line”, Those Words… Shattered Me… And When I Tried To Talk… He Used My One Weakness…

I Never Blamed Him Though, ‘Cause According To Him, He Only Wanted The Best For Me Saying “Medical Line Has A More Viable Chance Of Job Opportunities In This Current State Of The Country (Nigeria)”

Now That’s Where I’m Going… If I Came From Heaven And I Brought The Passion Of Being A Doctor With Me… That’s A Different Story, No One Can Stop Me From Being who I Was Made To Be… Not Even The Surroundings I Was Deployed As A Baby…

The Passion, The Energy I’d Use To Work For That One Thing I Want, Would Be Superb, ‘Cause I’d Be Happy And Once You Love What You Do, You Will Succeed!

Also, If I Came To Earth, Passion-Driven About Arts And You want Me To Go Study “Hard” And Become An Engineer… The Truth, Which Deep Inside, Everyone Knows… Is The Child Won’t Be Happy…

That’s A Whole ‘Nother Level Of Soul Crushing

What Most Parents Do Is Try To Infuse Their Own Unfulfilled Dreams On Their Poor Plain Minded Children… They Keep Telling Their Children You’d Become What I Want You To Be”

That’s Not Possible, You Didn’t Create Them, You Can Tell Them What To Be… Only God Can!

Nothing Can Change God’s Plan… Not Even Your “Wish” For Them...

You Either Delay It, Or You Kill It Cold Blooded In The Innocent Child God Gave You.

One Annoying Thing About This “What I Want To Become Of A Thing” Is How The Parents Will Now Scold The Child At This Level For Having Bad Grades… Or Not Passing (For Nigeria: ) The So Called “JAMB” Examinations… It’s So Upsetting… 🤦‍♂️