Category Archives: Relationship



It Is Often Said That Women Are Weak…

That Women Are The Inferior Gender To Men…

That Women Don’t Add Much Value To The Society Education-Wise / Politically… Seriously?! ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ™„

โ€œTheyโ€ Keep Saying Women Are Meant To Serve Men…

Oh, You Know What… You’re Probably Right… ๐Ÿ˜‰

โ€œBring Your Earโ€, I Want To Whisper Something In It… ๐Ÿ™ƒ

SHUT THE F**K UP! ๐Ÿคฌ ๐Ÿ˜ก

WTF You Think You Are?!

โ€  When You Can Bleed Profusely At Approximately 48 Weeks/Year And Still Stand – Then You Can Come At Me

โ€  When You Can Carry Another Soul In Your Belly For Nine Month, Nuture It, Abstain From Things That Could Hurt It, While Still Making Sure The Home Is In Perfect Order… – Come At Me, I’d Still Prove You Wrong!

โ€  Tell Me If You Can Drop Your Surname To Take On Another’s…

โ€  Tell Me If You Can Wake Up Four Hours Earlier Than Everyone Just To Make Everyone Good To Go – Bathing The Children… Cleaning The House… Preparing The Meal… Making Sure The Kids Aren’t Late/They Don’t Miss Their Ride… All, While Still Managing Herself To Get To Work Early… (That Is If She Didn’t Quit Her Job In The First Place)

There’s Nothing More I Love More Than A Trying Mother… Those People, Are Goddesses!

You See Men Trash Talking A Lady, Most Even Beat Their Woman _ What Are You?… A Dog?! (Even Dogs Literally Can’t) _ You With An Higher Initiative, โ€œBeatsโ€ His Woman… ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ

Maybe You Have No One To Tell You – But, You’re Insane – You’re Everything Below The Stats Of An Animal!

I Know Women Are Weak (Even Not, It’s Just Their Heart) – So You Think You Can Play On That, Just ‘Cause She’s Weak For You? SMH ๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ…

Most Ladies I’ve Met _ If Not All, It’ll Be At Least 90% Of ‘Em That Has That Same Issue – The ~ My Dad Loves Women Alot And Treats My Mum Like Trash ~ Kind…

And Still, These Beautiful Goddesses Keep Going – They Still Prepare Your Meals They Still Even Assist You Financially – They Still Take Care Of Your Kids!

|Just So You Know, My Case… Is The Absolute Opposite Of This ๐Ÿ‘€| But Still…

How About Child Birth!?

Ordinary Poop Out Of Your Ass And Your Eyes Wants To Pop Out ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ˜

Multiply That By 100 And Try To Fit It Through Your External Urethral Orifice ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜… You’d Know Women Are The Greatest!

Do You Think Adam Would Wake Up If God Wasn’t Done With Eve?

It Is Popularly Said That โ€œIf A Man Has Money, It’s Through His Wife You’d Knowโ€. But It’s Going Into Oblivion In Our Modern World… Most Men Love Acting โ€œGod-Fatherโ€ To Outsiders While Their Own Family Is In Needs…

If What You Have Isn’t Enough Just Yet, Use It On Your Family! (You’d Be Certain Anyone Outside Your Circle Saying โ€œShebi He’s Taking Care Of His Family, And He’s Saying He Doesn’t Haveโ€ Is Mad – In fact, Mad Is An Under rating Of The Person’s Ailment)

And When God Has Blessed You With More, You’d Know He Gave You For A Reason – To Bless Others Too – Don’t Hesitate To Give To The Needy… You Didn’t Bless Yourself, God Did!

Make Sure Your Home Is Secure First… If You Want To Change The World, It Starts From Right There!.

Keep Your Circle Close… Real Close _ Especially Those Goddesses – Keep ‘Em Shining… ‘Cause They’re Strong, They’re Queens Doing The Work Of Slaves(For Those That Do – You Rock!… Y’all Are The Best)

|[DISCLAIMER Here Is: Not All Women Are Like This Though, Some Ladies Pride Is Over WeighedSome Loves Nagging Some, Well, Don’t Care What The Future ๐Ÿ”ฎ Holds โ€“ They Do What They Like, Believing They’re Equal With Men โ€“ Which Is Not Possible โ€“ It Has Been So From The Start Of Time โŒš.

God Made Men The Head โ€“ Which Is Useless Without The Entire Body โ€” WOMEN!

Respect Every Woman You Meet (Unless It Isn’t Reciprocal), ‘Cause It’s Rare To Come Across A Goddess With The Strength Of A Thousand Men!]|


There Are Some Facts About Friends… Friendships… Relationships

I Am An Introvert & I Mostly Only Prefer The Company Of Me, Myself & I…

โ€  About 4/5 Of Your Friends Are Jealous Of You

โ€  All Your Friends Have Other Friends Closer Than You Are… – FACT!, Your Bestie Has Another Bestie, Your Twinnie Has Another Twinnie Closer Than You Are… Your Loml Has Another Loml…

โ€  At Least 2/5 Of Your All Your Friends Hate You – FACT!

โ€  Almost โ€œNONEโ€ Of Your Friends Want The ‘Absolute’ Best For You; If You Succeed Before Any Of Them, That Hate Will Come Naturally, Even If They Don’t Mean To FACT!

โ€  Of All Your Friends (Not Based On A 5 Scale Now), That Is Having About 20 – 30 – 50 – 100+ Friends, Or Even More!, Only About 2 Or 3 Are Real, Sometimes; Only 1 Or Even NONE! – FACT!

Even If You Have A Million Friends, To Come Across Real Ones Is Scarce… _ This Sometimes, Most Painfully Applies To Even Families Too…

Family Members,- Extended Families The Most; Wanna Know A Secret?, Those Inside People, They’re The Worst!

Can I Get A Resounding Amen?! ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

While This Applies To Most Families (And I Mean Most), There Are Still Some With The Unbreakable Trust Bond Amongst Themselves…

The Extended One However, Is Not Exempted! ๐Ÿ‘€

Tell Me, How Realistic Is It To See Your Own Child Struggling And The Child Of One Your Relatives Making Things On Things And Still Smile?

Some Will Even Call To Tell You!

You Calling Is Somewhat A Good Thing, (Since Your Motive Is Pure. Well, Unless It Isn’t ๐Ÿคจ) You Calling Out Of Joy!… But You Can’t Read Minds Now, Can You?

DISCLAIMER: There Are Still These Certain 1 in 8 Billion Kind Of People That’ll Do Anything For You Though…

ยป They’re Always Up For You

ยป Those People Will Never Speak Against You, They’d Rather Leave The Place Or (Depending On The Person) Defend You

ยป They’re Easy To Lose

ยป They’re The Ones We Tend To Maltreat Mostly

ยป They Are GAURDIAN ANGELS In Human Form


May 6, 2020

Before You Think Of Giving Life Up – Calm Down!

Before You Let Your Ego Ruin Your Relationship – Calm Down

Before You โ€œBreak That Person’s Headโ€ – Calm Down

Before You Start A Grudge With That Person That โ€œShouldโ€ Say โ€œSorryโ€ – Calm Down

Before You Let Jealousy Take Over – Calm Down

Before You Attempt To Do Something That You Might Regret – Calm Down | Breathe In, Breathe Out. Now Ask Yourself

Is It Worth It?

People Are Bond To Offend Us…

As Matter Of Fact, People Are Meant To Offend Us… We Certainly Can’t Deny The Fact That We’ve Offended Others Too… That’s Just How It Goes

You Need To Learn How To Forgive… It’ll Help Against Negative Energies ๐Ÿง˜โ€โ™‚๏ธ

They’re Certain Offences People Can [Will] Commit Against Us… But Unless They Don’t Want To Admit What They Did ร— [Which In My Case, I Believe You Should Sometimes Show People The Era Of Their Ways… After Patience, Of Course ๐Ÿ‘€] ร— Vengeance Never Solves Anything… Anything…

You Really Don’t Have To Go All Out…

If They Were Worth A Place In Your Universe, They’ll Be Humble Enough To Admit Their Mistakes… Not Blame It On You Or Someone Else…

This Thing Called Ego Is One Of The Thousand Factors Ruining Relationships Nowadays…

You Feel The Other Should Say Sorry First…

โ€œHow Can He/She Do That To Me… Me!?โ€ โ€“ Said Someone Who’s Nothing… Believe Me, The Strongest People Are Those Who Seek The Retribution Of Their Relationship/Marriage _ Not Those Waiting For An Apology…

If At A Certain Age Of โ€œMaturityโ€, You Still โ€œExpectโ€ From People, Or You โ€œExpectโ€ Someone To Do Something, Or You Didn’t โ€œExpectโ€ Someone Could Do What They Did To You… Sorry To Tell You; But, You’re One Of The Many Dumb People On This Planet…

Get With The Program…

Anything Can, And Will Happen… You Don’t Have To Act All Childish About It… Calm The F**k Down!

Self Awareness ร— [Which Sometimes Is A Good Thing] ร— Is Something That Creates Problems For Most Of Us… You Don’t Wanna Let Go… Buh You Don’t Wanna Be The Underdog Either… It’s Side Effects Are Ego And Pride… And The Inevitable Outcome Is Doing Something, Well, – Out Of Context

So, Before You Take That Decision, Either You’re Over Excited… Or Over Anxious… Or Under Pressure… Remember To CALM DOMN ๐Ÿ™‚


Apr 28, 2020

I Love You So Much! I Can Die For You!… Right… ๐Ÿ˜’, Sure You Can… Even Jesus Did & People Still Don’t Reference Him.

In The World We’ve Come To Have Today…

I LOVE YOU, Is Now More Of A Mind-Off Quote Than A Heart-Felt Statement…

The Word LOVE Has Come So Far, Through The Centuries, Morphing Into Whatever It Is Today…

People Now Have Different Meanings For The Word LOVE… People Call It What They See It As…

Some Other Morphed Name For It May Be;

SEX – This One’s The Most Common… (It So Happens To Be Said In This Category, That โ€œIf You Don’t Sleep With Me, It Means You Don’t Love Meโ€.) Have You Forgotten That A Day Will Come That Sex Will Irritate You… And You Won’t Even Be Able To Move A Sexual Muscle, Now Tell Me, What Would Hold Your Marriage/Relationship Down Then?… Sex? OR True Love?

MONEY – Most People (Especially Ladies… Mostly Ladies… 95% Of The Times – Ladies! ๐Ÿ‘€) Believes If You Don’t Spend Money In A Relationship, You Don’t Love Them… [Most Ladies I’ve โ€œMetโ€ In My Life, Don’t Really Go By This… So Are Other Millions Of Ladies Out There That Don’t Need Your Money To Love You… But ๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ˜…]

POSITION – (Sounds Weird To Be There, But Believe Me It Is…) This Deals Mostly On How We Place Ourselves… While It’s Important In A Relationship To Text And Make Calls, I Could Text You Or Call You Or Give You My Attention 24/7, It Doesn’t Certify That I Do Love You. โ€œLustโ€ Is Not โ€œLoveโ€ – Know The Difference. [I Wish To Emphasise More On This, But Let’s Leave The Figuring Out To Our Beautiful And Kindred Minds… Shall We?]


Show โ€œLoveโ€ To EVERYONE
Be Nice, Be Kind…
You Never Know, If It’ll Be The Last Thing You’d Do
You Never Know, If It’ll Be The Last Thing They’d Experience
Friends And Enemies Alike. DON’T GRUDGE

[โ€œPlease, Don’t Take Me As A Preacher (‘Cause I’m Not!). I’ve said That In My Earlier Posts, Where I Made References To The Bible. “I’m Just An Introvert Who Reads His Bible Rather Than Wait Around For Someone To Tell Him Fabricated Stories Of It”. Also, What I Speak Of On My Blog Is The Realities Of Life, And “The Bible” Happens To Be All About That ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธโ€]

There’s This Particular Chapter In That Splendiferous Word Of God That Intrigues Me On What The True Meaning Of Love Is…

Times And Over, I’d Pounder, I’d Read It Over And Over Again… I Understand It Though, (I Guess God Made Me Understand ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ™‡โ€โ™‚๏ธ)…

But When I Look At The World Around Me… Around Us… It Just Doesn’t Feel Right!

Love Is Patient And Kind;

It Is Not Jealous Or Conceited Or Proud;

Love Is Not Ill-Mannered Or Selfish Or Irritable;

Love Does Not Keep A Record Of Wrongs;

Love Is Not Happy With Evil, But Is Happy With The Truth;

Love Never Gives Up; And It’s Faith, Hope, And Patience Never Fail.

Love Is Eternal!

1 Corinthians 13:4 – 8ยช

Read This, Read It, Continue Reading It, Keep Reading It, And When You’re โ€œDoneโ€; Read It Again!

I Don’t Know Who Needs To See This, I Don’t Know Who In The World Is Urgently In Need Of The Understanding Of These Words…

Whoever It is, Either You Reading This, Or Someone You Know,… Don’t Wear Yourself Out Trying To Find Love… You Have A Guideline From Your Creator; Follow It.



Apr 4, 2020


You Know Steve Jobs, The Founder Of Apple๐Ÿ?, He Got Fired From His Own Company! – Who Gets Fired From Their Own Company?!๐Ÿ˜ณ. But That Didn’t Stop Him Now, Did It? ๐Ÿค”


Don’t Let People Get Too Close To You. ‘Cause When You Want Your Personal Space, Telling Them Might Not Be Easy On Feelings.

There’s This One Thing I’ve Come To Realise And Understand About Life

It Doesn’t Matter What You Do, But What You’re Willing To Lose/Let Go/Face/Pass Through/ Sacrifice When Doing It!

We’re All Meant To Succeed (Disclaimer: Not All Of Us Are, Know Why?; Those People Aren’t Willing To Do What It Takes)

You Must Sacrifice Something To Get What You Want. That Has Been The Order Of Things & Till The End Of Man Kind Will Continue To Be.

Today, I’m Going To Be Analysing The Obvious Reason You Should Never Quit And Just Keep Trying – Through HISTORIC Examples.

Both Past And Present Passion Driven Exceptional People Who Never Gave Up Despite Being Cut-Off

Whatever You Want To Do In Life, JUST DO IT! [The Passion Wasn’t Installed In You For Nothing]


This Post Might Feel Long, But Believe Me, It’s Worth It ๐Ÿ‘Œ

โ€  Do You Know How Many Time Scarlett Johansson (Black Widow In Avengers) Got Rejected?

โ€  Do You Know Anna Wintour? (The Person Whose Name Leads The Fashion Industry), She Was Once Fired For Being โ€œToo Edgyโ€ – Now, She Literally Advices You To Get Fired Too! (So Long You Know What You’re Doing)

โ€  The Author/Writer Of Our Beloved Harry Potter Series J. K. Rowling Was Rejected 12 (Twelve) [She Made It Into The Forbes Billionaire’s List! But Only Got Of ‘Cause Of Her Donations Of Millions In Charity – Now, That’s A Human Woman!]

โ€  I Don’t Know If We All Know Stephen King, But His First And Now Most Renowned Book; โ€œCarrieโ€, Was Rejected 30 Times. [King Trashed The Book ๐Ÿ“™ Back Then, But His Wife Rescued It & Encouraged Him To TRY AGAIN!]

โ€  Walt Disney Was Told He Has No Imagination!

โ€  Steve Jobs Was Fired From His Own Company!

โ€  Albert Einstein Couldn’t Speak Till He Was 4 And Couldn’t Read Till He Was 7

Don’t Worry About Whatever Is Going On NowNow Matters, But Now Is Not The Point. After Is What Should Be Your Concern.

You Feel Like The Society Doesn’t Accept You?, You Feel Out Of Place, No One Supports You?, You Don’t Have What It Takes? – Now That’s A Lie, ‘Cause You Do!

The One thing Common To Them All… Is Persistency. NEVER GIVING UP!

Take A Good Study At All Of Them And Ask Yourself: โ€œDo I Really Wanna Leave This World Without Making It Feel My Presence?โ€

No Matter How Small… JUST DO IT! โœ”๏ธ